Squirting
all there is to know
The word „squirting“ has become a popular word to describe the act of female ejaculation, but there are many misconceptions about this act. Squirting itself is not the most accurate description of what happens, because rather than shooting out of the body, like water out of the hose, the thin fluid actually flows or gushes out the urethra, during female ejaculation. Among countless other rumors, one of the most common misconceptions is that the warm, thin fluid that is secreted is actually pure urine. This of course is complete nonsense, but more on that later…
Despite all the rumours, it is important to understand that squirting is neither unhealthy or disgusting in any way. In fact, whoever achieves squirting, is actually experiencing arousal with every fiber of their body and thus, much more intensely.
How does Squirting work?
The key to bringing yourself to squirt is providing targeted pressure on your G-spot. This can be done by inserting two fingers, (say your middle and ring finger) in a slightly curved position, into your vagina. You will find the G-spot about four to six centimeters inside the vagina, on the upper wall. The same area as the female prostate, which can also be called the paraurethral- or Skene glands, the glands which lie directly next to the urethral opening.
When aroused, particularly through simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris and the vagina, the Skene glands fill with ejaculative fluid, much like the kind that comes out of a penis. This fluid normally would be responsible for lubricating your vagina during sex, however, if you apply targeted pressure to the inner clitoral extensions (your G-spot area), this prevents the fluid from flowing into the vagina and creates a congestion. The build-up in pressure drives the fluid out of the body through the urethral opening instead and if you lean into the sensation and let go, rather than try to suppress it, you can experience the extra-wet moment called squirting.
Our Top 5 Squirting Tips
summarized
1. Create a safe and calm atmosphere and take your time
2. Make sure your bladder is empty before you start
3. When playing with someone else – get in the mood with foreplay
4. Then: Apply targeted stimulation on your G-spot with either your ring and middle finger or a curved toy
5. Give into the urge to urinate: THIS is your squirting moment!
Squirting Tips with BE·ONE
Looking for a fool proof squirting technique? We recommend: The BE·ONE. Our innovative couples toy is a fantastic foreplay companion, bringing your foreplay game to the next level. To top it off, our FUN Fans have also discovered that it is the perfect toy to help with squirting too.
This is how it works:
STEP 1
Slide the BE.ONE between your index and middle finger and use the gentle vibration to stimulate the labia, vulva and the clitoris to start with. This will increase blood circulation and get you aroused and excited.
STEP 2
Then - turn your palm upside down and insert the BE.ONE vibrator inside the vagina together with both the fingers pointing up. The curved form of the BE.ONE fits perfectly in your hand and acts like a third, vibrating finger. This is ideal for reaching your G-Spot and providing pin-point stimulation with exactly the right amount of pressure.
STEP 3
To add more pressure, place your other hand over your pubic bone and press against it from the outside with the palm of your hand. This blocks the clitoral extensions more securely and ensures the desired accumulation of the fluid in the Skene glands, making it pour out of the urethra in a gush, when you're extremly aroused.
Squirting
The key is the journey, not the destination
So, are you ready to give it a test run? Then there is only one thing left to say: make sure to take your time to relax completely before you start and do not pressure yourself into achieving squirting. We know that you are excited to achieve your squirting moment, and you're justified in doing so, but every body is different! Not everyone is into G-Spot FUN and the amount of fluid can also vary. The absolute worst-case scenario: You reach climax but without the squirt. And let´s be honest, there are far worse things… Simply relax and enjoy the lustful exploration of your body and just keep on trying, and trying and trying…